Managing meltdowns
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Ever looked at your child mid‑meltdown and wondered, “Why won’t they just listen?” Most parents experience moments when cooperation feels completely out of reach. The good news is that you have more influence than you realize.
Cooperation is a foundational skill that helps children succeed at home, in school and in their communities. Parents and caregivers are their child’s most important teachers and play a key role in building cooperation.
One effective strategy is giving clear, simple directions and praising children when they follow them. Start by getting your child’s attention, then using a calm, direct tone to say what you want them to do. Giving one direction at a time, with a specific time frame. An example:
Avoid: “You’re so disorganized. I’m tired of bringing your homework folder.”
Try: “Put your homework folder in your backpack now, please.”
Avoid: “Go get ready for bed.”
Try: “Time for bed. Go brush your teeth for two minutes.”
When your child cooperates, acknowledge it! A smile, high five or specific praise increases the chance you'll experience greater cooperation in the future.
Dani Emrick | Certified Parenting through Change Group Leader 1170 Pearl St., Eugene
541-743-4350
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